It's almost Thanksgiving, yet I'm seeing Christmas decorations on display at various stores. I really think they put those out too early, considering we just passed Halloween. I like Christmas - I just tire of seeing the decorations so early in the year.
However, it is a reminder to at least begin shopping, if you haven't already begun. I have a couple of things for folks on my list already, but I'm not really very far along on shopping. Yes, I will be doing some Christmas shopping, but each thing will be carefully chosen for the intended recipient. Nothing will be extravagant. The spirit of the season isn't how much you spend, but if the gift suits the person you're giving it to, don't you think?
For instance, I shop for some things online at places that offer some coupon codes, like Amazon books, or places that offer deep discounts over the regular retail prices. This allows me to give nice things without going into debt well into the following year. When Christmas is over, I don't find myself owing money. That's a lot more satisfying than trying to outdo others who are giving to the person.
- What are the recipients hobbies? I can give items that will help them in their hobbies. Some craft supplies, a gift card to a hobby or collections shop.
- What are their activities? If they love to play music or sports, I can give something to add to that enjoyment. Small sports equipment, guitar strings, reeds, etc. are examples of things that can be a good gift.
- I can give a dinner out or a ticket to an upcoming movie or concert, if that's where their interests lie.
- Do they love to cook? A subscription to a cooking magazine or an interesting kitchen gadget from a kitchen specialty store would work.
- Do they have children? Passes to a local child-oriented movie or play place for the whole family, or offer to babysit for the parents to have an evening out.
You get the idea. Really putting some thought into gift giving makes the gift much more special and appreciated. Again, it's not the amount of money you spend. It really is the thought that goes into the gift.
